I see fat girls…. Walking around like regular people. They don’t see each other. They only see what they want to see. They don’t know they’re fat.
From azcentral.com:
Many girls think it’s normal to be fat
A new study on girls’ attitudes toward weight and body image suggests anti-obesity programs focused solely on proper diet and exercise may not work for girls whose health goals come down to one thing: “appearing normal.”
Placing a higher premium on emotional health than on body weight, 88 percent of 11- to 17-year-old girls say feeling good about yourself is better than how you look, according to a Girl Scout Research Institute survey of 2,060 girls released Wednesday.
Sounds great, doesn’t it?
With the number of obese American children reaching 9 million, the study, “The New Normal? What Girls Say about Healthy Living,” suggests girls in some instances consider being overweight to be normal. The survey found 45 percent of overweight girls didn’t realize they were overweight.
Oh now I see–this is supposed to be bad news.
The fact that 88% of girls in the study value their self-esteem more than the numbers on their scales is a sure sign that their priorities are skewed. They might be walking around feeling good about themselves even if they’re fat. We need to set those girls straight. How about if we mandate weigh-ins at schools with pass/fail signs hung around their necks to let them know if they conform to the standard or not? The study notes that Hispanic and African-American girls, though they have the highest incidence of overweight, are the happiest with their bodies. We can’t let that go on.
I sincerely doubt that half of all fat girls are unaware of their status as fat girls. Society and peers provide plenty of feedback on what is an acceptable body.
I’d love to know how this on-line survey deduced who was overweight. Did they make height and weight a requisite for taking the survey? How do they make those judgments about who is overweight? Also, no mention is made of how many girls believe themselves to be fat when they’re not. Given the numbers of teenagers (and others) afflicted with eating disorders, this would be a critical data point.
When I was a sophomore in high school, I stood 5′2″ and weighed 126 lbs. That was 20 lbs overweight, according to the chart my gym teacher quoted. Never mind that I could leg press 200 lbs. and wore a size 9–I was overweight and needed to diet immediately.
Until that required weigh-in in gym class, I’d never given my weight much thought. I liked my body because it performed well; I could run for miles, play 3 hours of pickup hoops and climb a tree with the best of them. If there was any part of me I didn’t like, it was my large breasts. From puberty on, I bound them with a large ace bandage to keep them out of the way while I played ball. But suddenly, a body that worked well wasn’t good enough. I felt like an imposter because I hadn’t obsessed about it before. I needed to be thinner to be pretty, to be acceptable. Maybe that’s why boys weren’t interested in me. Being smart and athletic wasn’t enough. The charts and the gym teacher said I was fat, so I must be.
I look back at those picture now and I want to cry. I see someone healthy and strong, with thighs to do Tina Turner proud. But I thought I was fat and beat myself up over it, the shame eventually leading to a real weight problem.
Now the Girl Scouts of America are concerned that fat girls might not know they’re fat. Or worse, they might like themselves anyway.
It makes me sad and it makes me angry. What’s so wrong with accepting ourselves as we are? A deep love and respect for our bodies is the first step toward healthier living at any weight.